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Express your love to your daughter with a kiss because the Prophet PBUH said: "Expand kiss your children, because every kiss has its own degrees in heaven."
Humans are creatures who always needed love. Love like a lamp to the liver. He who loves himself and wants to be loved other people then he must turn the feelings of affection in him. Compassion reciprocal influence in the relationship between teacher and pupil. When one teacher, for example, do not love their students then how could he be able to direct and guide him. Therefore, love has an important role in education, and he could be categorized as one of the main factors in education and in building relationships / a harmonious interaction between educators and students.
The best method of relationship is a relationship built on love. Why? Because of this relationship so natural system, while the relationship is built on coercion and violence-any way-is an unnatural connection alias is not normal.
The psychological needs of children-in the association and friendship with their affection and attention. Parents as children's early mentors must consider whether the affection was met with both on them, because compassion is the pillar and foundation of education. When affection is met with good will come true peace of mind, feeling safe, confident, and the emergence of trust to parents. Even true love that got a kid will proportionately affect the physical safety of the child. The Prophet PBUH said: "Expand kiss your children, because every kiss has its own degrees in heaven." Therefore, the most important responsibilities of parents towards their children are interacting with gentleness and affection as well as full kasah revealing affection to his children significantly. Besides this way, will not create a good relationship that can encourage the development and improvement of mental and spiritual children. Relationships are cold, empty and without love will result in dryness of spirit and soul and will eventually mengiring children act immoral and do prayers in the community. In other words, maybe the kids who do naughty and make mischief out of the house is the children that are less or even not getting the love of parents and the people nearby.
Valentines Urgency
Compassion create cooperation among humans. When Compassion no it will not come true brotherhood among men; no one who feels a responsibility toward others; justice and sacrifice would be absurd utopian. Therefore, the attitude of human affection, especially in the world of teaching and education, is essential. In addition, love also causes physical and spiritual salvation, be the right solution to improve and harmonize the immoral behavior of human relationships.
Allah describes the concept of love in the verses of the Quran with his words: "Truly Allah loves those who fear Allah." (Al Imran: 76). "Truly Allah loves those who do good." (Al Imran: 138). Thus, the relationship among humans, especially children should be built based on the language of love and affection. The world of education will be successful and prosperous if pursued with various jenjangnya rhythm of love.
Compassion is so important because it triggers obedience and togetherness. In this case the Holy Prophet has said: "Someone will be gathered together with their beloved ones." Between love and obedience have a bond of togetherness. Namely, compassion will manifest devotion and togetherness. When loving parents are embedded in the hearts of children so they will be obedient and followers of his parents. The fruit of love of parents will make the children do not easily ignore the responsibilities and tasks mandated to them.
Once an important role in the development of the spirit of love and balance children's souls. True or not the establishment and good behavior of a child depends a lot how far the affection he received during the period of education. The condition of a family filled with love cause tenderness attitudes of children. Children who grow up in a family environment full of love and attention will have a noble personality, likes to love others and behave well in society. The warmth of love and affection received by the children will make their lives meaningful, uplifting, unleash their hidden potential and talent, and encouraged to work / trying to be creative.
Love of children and adolescents are the basis of Islamic teachings. The Great Prophet Muhammad loved children and do good to them. He said: "Love your children and pity them." So, parents must show the sincerity of his love for her child, so that the child will reciprocate positive attitude.
Parents in general wanted to change his bad character, shaping its identity, and instill the true belief in his mind. The desire of parents is not possible without the love and motivation towards the development and refinement.
Needs Children Compassion
Humans naturally need to love saying. Only love can change a person's behavior. Compassion is the source of soul education. It is no easy matter to change a hard heart be tender, but love has proven to be a potent recipe in directing one's heart and control it and be able to prevent it from actions disgraceful and despicable. Even human affection can conjure up the original was modest and less considered to be fully human, honest and true.
Children, teenagers and adults alike also need love and affection. Affection is very important in teaching and education system of children. When a child sees bond of affection on both parents, then it is slightly more influential in keeping her from moral turpitude. Psychologists argue that the root of most performed penyelewangan children because of lack of affection in the home, and they believe that takkala affection are not met properly and correctly so do not expect the children will be able to change bad habits and behaviors.
Children and adolescents need more affection than adults. While eating and drinking anything they ask for or happy to be considered by both parents. This indicates that in every situation they yearn for love and attention of parents. In the embrace of affection, feelings of love and tenderness of the child / adolescent to develop well and will be transformed into a human ideal. An educator who ignore the love and affection will not be able to build good relationships with their students, and he is doomed to fail in delivering educational messages to him. A teacher who first opened the door to the eyes of his heart rather than reasoning and thinking it would be to give effect to children's protege. But teachers who love the poor will be unable to make their students as a good listener.
Man is the slave of love, as it is said that "man is a good slave." In other words, compassion and sincere friendship that could predispose humans to like slaves who will obey whatever his employer / master.
Creator of the universe is so remarkable in love with his servant, even the love of his mother on his mind than love. Love of God become a factor of education and refinement for His servants, so that their souls away from segalah dirt and disobedience. Al-Quran mentions a lot of love of God to His servant. God as a good educator who spoke to Moses: "And I have been delegated to you the love that comes from Me, and in order that you raised under my supervision." (Surah: Taha 39).
Imam Ja'far al-Sadiq said: "God's love is so entrenched and trace in dirimanusia. When Allah loves His servants and He inspires devotion, menamkan sifaf kanaah (willingly with all the gift of God and always had enough) and make wise in matters of religion. "Parents are able to make friends with her son in a well and build healthy communication reciprocity with their parents are successful and deserves thumbs up. Parents like this are usually easy to guide and educate her children.
Imam Sadiq said: "Moses said: O Lord what is most important deeds by your side? He said, loved children, for them that I created my oneness with nature. "
Prophet Muhammad said: "It is not belonged to us someone who does not love little children and do not respect the older."
The most influential and effective in education is the approach you saying. Because love has an appeal and motivate good morals and provide peace to a naughty child though. Her love and compassion must first be guaranteed peace and kedaiaman children in the family environment before they are faced with various rules and decisions made by parents. Happiness and peace of mind they will be met if a family can become the central expression of feelings, compassion, and love. If the father and mother are unable to meet this essential requirement, then the children grow less confident that in the near future will show various deviations of individual and social. Family environment should be characterized by warmth of love and intimacy relationships between family members so that a child also try and attempt to provide the warmth of love in the family environment. Compassion able to overcome segalah kinds of issues in education. All work, especially work related to thought and culture need to be love. A job should be done with a little smile, not by coercion and violence.
As revealed by Allamah Sayyid Ismail Balhi:
Heart is not in it like a grave bersemayan longing narrow world like a soul without love narrow
Mevlevi also said:
Because the bitter sweet love
For love of steel into gold
Because love thorns become flowers
For love to taste a delicious sour
For love of the dead to life
Because love the king becomes a slave
Some people view that between educators and educated there should be separation and distance education to succeed, but they forget that education is carried out with threats and violence only prevent immoral traits in temporal course. Namely, when because of fear and the threat has gone so bad traits will re-appear in the behavior of students.
Expressing Love and Love
One of the important points related to the affection of parents towards children is a parent should not only satisfied with the inner harbor affection, because affection is only influential in education if he revealed it outwardly, so that children are aware and know / see it direct . If not, the meaning of love is only useful for lovers only, not the loved ones. The appearance of affection and love is an important point that encouraged and emphasized by the Prophet in which he said: "When a person loves his brother, he must show this love for him, because with that bond and friendship will be better with him."
Once, someone came to Imam Muhammad al-Baqir and express his love by saying: I love somebody. Imam said: "Ekpresikan kecintaanmu him; as this has the effect of friendship." Therefore, mothers and fathers with a variety of methods must express and show love and affection to the child because of love with your heart is not enough.
Parents who are smart are parents who are good at expressing affection appropriately to their children so they can be felt directly by them. When children feel that their parents love it, care about his fate, lead the development and refinement and attention to education, then they will love and idolize their parents.
Extreme Love
Approach affection will be very useful in education when it's not out of the concept of the ideal, ie not excessive and no less than necessary. Lack of compassion will attract people to the direction of disability, unhealthy and morals are not praiseworthy. Love compassion that led to positive development in children. The role of affection in the spirit and soul of education of children is so important as the importance of food for body growth. As food is lacking or excessive causing unwanted disease on the body then so is lack of affection or love that very much (too spoiled) will also damage children's souls.
Formerly of educators to use in ways that are not true in educating children and teenagers, such as lowering (their abilities), forcing them to do heavy work, sending inappropriate words, get used to insults and does not provide the opportunity children to defend themselves, easy to get mad, prejudice, revenge, rough and even justify a criminal act (the beating, etc.). However, nowadays with the accelerated development of science and the emergence of psychology and research, various of the above is considered an irrational way and proportional. Modern education experts would develop methods of education of children and adolescents who refers to the harmonious relationship that relies on the concept of compassion.
Love it very postitif if indeed carried out in a balanced way, but when excessive parental affection and not ideal then she has unknowingly mengiring child to perform an indecent act and is not responsible. This is the impact of the wrong methods of education. Children who get overly affectionate aka spoiled miss limit will tend to be lazy, submissive, weak, and quick despair when faced with small problems in hidupanya.
Therefore, parents should love their children are sincere, but remain objective. Namely, parents also have to look at shame and disgraceful traits child and then fix it with a rational approach. Receive and said yes just like that the wishes and actions of children without considering the plus-minus will impact negatively on their education and destroy their character as they are difficult to repair.
Be Fair in Love Spilling
One of the important issues that need to be considered by parents is to maintain fairness and equality when they show affection among the children. Father and mother in love and cherish her children not allowed to be playing favorites, because this will naturally lead to the loss of their honor and the loss of confidence in the children of the family environment. The Apostle of Allah and the People of the temple of the holy priest stresses the importance of maintaining equality and not be playing favorites in the show of affection.
It is said, the Prophet was speaking in the midst of his best friend and then a little boy went into his father's place and go around the panel. The father stroked the boy's head in her lap and then mendudukannya right. Not long after his daughter was also in and toward his father. The father then stroked the girl's head and then mendudukannya at his side. When the Prophet saw his father's different treatment than before, he said: Why do not mendudukannya in the lap of one? Then the father had followed the command of the Prophet and his daughter sat in her lap krinya. It was also the Prophet said: "Now you have to maintain justice."
The Prophet of Allah said: "Applies fair was in the middle of your children as you like to be treated fairly by them, either in kindness and in compassion." Therefore, to maintain equality among the children in education is important and when it is not considered to have negative effects.
Affection towards the child pick the positive effects and benefits, including:
· Compassion will bring pleasure and joy. The greater the affection of parents to children, the greater the joy in children and make the hearts of more care and attention.
Your child learn to love from their parents so that he would apply the compassion to others in ways that he saw from his parents. Children who do not feel real affection in addition to getting a negative effect on the body and soul, will also be problematic in the study of love and ultimately he was not able to love and cherish others in the future.
· Emergence of self-confidence. Children who have the independence and self confidence are able to solve their own problems and not wait for help from others. With a big motivation and a steely determination, the child is trying to find a solution to every problem it faces, so that before reaching the goal then abstinence for him to resign.
· Compassion will motivate kids to do various activities with success. Children who feel enough affection then he will be successful in various activities and field cultivate a digemarinya. In education it will be a bright child and physically skilled and even he will grow in a healthy manner.
· Affection to children able to attract the sympathy of the child, and in turn the child will believe her father, so terjalinlah good relations between them and the child will hear and obey the words of the father. Thus this child will be easily trained and directed by his father. Because this child is loving and likes people who understand his desire that people like this he found in his father's private, so that he will keep his father's command. In this regard, Imam Ali bin Abi Talib said: "The human heart is cruel. He who does gentle and loving heart to it then it will be submissive and obedient to him. "
Conclusion
Parents who express true affection to their children are forming the character of the child to be obedient. With love and sincere and harmonious relationship, parents can prevent their children from committing a disgraceful act and lead them towards a glorious and noble action. Compassion is the key to perfection and the ideal of education.
Humans are creatures who always needed love. Love like a lamp to the liver. He who loves himself and wants to be loved other people then he must turn the feelings of affection in him. Compassion reciprocal influence in the relationship between teacher and pupil. When one teacher, for example, do not love their students then how could he be able to direct and guide him. Therefore, love has an important role in education, and he could be categorized as one of the main factors in education and in building relationships / a harmonious interaction between educators and students.
The best method of relationship is a relationship built on love. Why? Because of this relationship so natural system, while the relationship is built on coercion and violence-any way-is an unnatural connection alias is not normal.
The psychological needs of children-in the association and friendship with their affection and attention. Parents as children's early mentors must consider whether the affection was met with both on them, because compassion is the pillar and foundation of education. When affection is met with good will come true peace of mind, feeling safe, confident, and the emergence of trust to parents. Even true love that got a kid will proportionately affect the physical safety of the child. The Prophet PBUH said: "Expand kiss your children, because every kiss has its own degrees in heaven." Therefore, the most important responsibilities of parents towards their children are interacting with gentleness and affection as well as full kasah revealing affection to his children significantly. Besides this way, will not create a good relationship that can encourage the development and improvement of mental and spiritual children. Relationships are cold, empty and without love will result in dryness of spirit and soul and will eventually mengiring children act immoral and do prayers in the community. In other words, maybe the kids who do naughty and make mischief out of the house is the children that are less or even not getting the love of parents and the people nearby.
Valentines Urgency
Compassion create cooperation among humans. When Compassion no it will not come true brotherhood among men; no one who feels a responsibility toward others; justice and sacrifice would be absurd utopian. Therefore, the attitude of human affection, especially in the world of teaching and education, is essential. In addition, love also causes physical and spiritual salvation, be the right solution to improve and harmonize the immoral behavior of human relationships.
Allah describes the concept of love in the verses of the Quran with his words: "Truly Allah loves those who fear Allah." (Al Imran: 76). "Truly Allah loves those who do good." (Al Imran: 138). Thus, the relationship among humans, especially children should be built based on the language of love and affection. The world of education will be successful and prosperous if pursued with various jenjangnya rhythm of love.
Compassion is so important because it triggers obedience and togetherness. In this case the Holy Prophet has said: "Someone will be gathered together with their beloved ones." Between love and obedience have a bond of togetherness. Namely, compassion will manifest devotion and togetherness. When loving parents are embedded in the hearts of children so they will be obedient and followers of his parents. The fruit of love of parents will make the children do not easily ignore the responsibilities and tasks mandated to them.
Once an important role in the development of the spirit of love and balance children's souls. True or not the establishment and good behavior of a child depends a lot how far the affection he received during the period of education. The condition of a family filled with love cause tenderness attitudes of children. Children who grow up in a family environment full of love and attention will have a noble personality, likes to love others and behave well in society. The warmth of love and affection received by the children will make their lives meaningful, uplifting, unleash their hidden potential and talent, and encouraged to work / trying to be creative.
Love of children and adolescents are the basis of Islamic teachings. The Great Prophet Muhammad loved children and do good to them. He said: "Love your children and pity them." So, parents must show the sincerity of his love for her child, so that the child will reciprocate positive attitude.
Parents in general wanted to change his bad character, shaping its identity, and instill the true belief in his mind. The desire of parents is not possible without the love and motivation towards the development and refinement.
Needs Children Compassion
Humans naturally need to love saying. Only love can change a person's behavior. Compassion is the source of soul education. It is no easy matter to change a hard heart be tender, but love has proven to be a potent recipe in directing one's heart and control it and be able to prevent it from actions disgraceful and despicable. Even human affection can conjure up the original was modest and less considered to be fully human, honest and true.
Children, teenagers and adults alike also need love and affection. Affection is very important in teaching and education system of children. When a child sees bond of affection on both parents, then it is slightly more influential in keeping her from moral turpitude. Psychologists argue that the root of most performed penyelewangan children because of lack of affection in the home, and they believe that takkala affection are not met properly and correctly so do not expect the children will be able to change bad habits and behaviors.
Children and adolescents need more affection than adults. While eating and drinking anything they ask for or happy to be considered by both parents. This indicates that in every situation they yearn for love and attention of parents. In the embrace of affection, feelings of love and tenderness of the child / adolescent to develop well and will be transformed into a human ideal. An educator who ignore the love and affection will not be able to build good relationships with their students, and he is doomed to fail in delivering educational messages to him. A teacher who first opened the door to the eyes of his heart rather than reasoning and thinking it would be to give effect to children's protege. But teachers who love the poor will be unable to make their students as a good listener.
Man is the slave of love, as it is said that "man is a good slave." In other words, compassion and sincere friendship that could predispose humans to like slaves who will obey whatever his employer / master.
Creator of the universe is so remarkable in love with his servant, even the love of his mother on his mind than love. Love of God become a factor of education and refinement for His servants, so that their souls away from segalah dirt and disobedience. Al-Quran mentions a lot of love of God to His servant. God as a good educator who spoke to Moses: "And I have been delegated to you the love that comes from Me, and in order that you raised under my supervision." (Surah: Taha 39).
Imam Ja'far al-Sadiq said: "God's love is so entrenched and trace in dirimanusia. When Allah loves His servants and He inspires devotion, menamkan sifaf kanaah (willingly with all the gift of God and always had enough) and make wise in matters of religion. "Parents are able to make friends with her son in a well and build healthy communication reciprocity with their parents are successful and deserves thumbs up. Parents like this are usually easy to guide and educate her children.
Imam Sadiq said: "Moses said: O Lord what is most important deeds by your side? He said, loved children, for them that I created my oneness with nature. "
Prophet Muhammad said: "It is not belonged to us someone who does not love little children and do not respect the older."
The most influential and effective in education is the approach you saying. Because love has an appeal and motivate good morals and provide peace to a naughty child though. Her love and compassion must first be guaranteed peace and kedaiaman children in the family environment before they are faced with various rules and decisions made by parents. Happiness and peace of mind they will be met if a family can become the central expression of feelings, compassion, and love. If the father and mother are unable to meet this essential requirement, then the children grow less confident that in the near future will show various deviations of individual and social. Family environment should be characterized by warmth of love and intimacy relationships between family members so that a child also try and attempt to provide the warmth of love in the family environment. Compassion able to overcome segalah kinds of issues in education. All work, especially work related to thought and culture need to be love. A job should be done with a little smile, not by coercion and violence.
As revealed by Allamah Sayyid Ismail Balhi:
Heart is not in it like a grave bersemayan longing narrow world like a soul without love narrow
Mevlevi also said:
Because the bitter sweet love
For love of steel into gold
Because love thorns become flowers
For love to taste a delicious sour
For love of the dead to life
Because love the king becomes a slave
Some people view that between educators and educated there should be separation and distance education to succeed, but they forget that education is carried out with threats and violence only prevent immoral traits in temporal course. Namely, when because of fear and the threat has gone so bad traits will re-appear in the behavior of students.
Expressing Love and Love
One of the important points related to the affection of parents towards children is a parent should not only satisfied with the inner harbor affection, because affection is only influential in education if he revealed it outwardly, so that children are aware and know / see it direct . If not, the meaning of love is only useful for lovers only, not the loved ones. The appearance of affection and love is an important point that encouraged and emphasized by the Prophet in which he said: "When a person loves his brother, he must show this love for him, because with that bond and friendship will be better with him."
Once, someone came to Imam Muhammad al-Baqir and express his love by saying: I love somebody. Imam said: "Ekpresikan kecintaanmu him; as this has the effect of friendship." Therefore, mothers and fathers with a variety of methods must express and show love and affection to the child because of love with your heart is not enough.
Parents who are smart are parents who are good at expressing affection appropriately to their children so they can be felt directly by them. When children feel that their parents love it, care about his fate, lead the development and refinement and attention to education, then they will love and idolize their parents.
Extreme Love
Approach affection will be very useful in education when it's not out of the concept of the ideal, ie not excessive and no less than necessary. Lack of compassion will attract people to the direction of disability, unhealthy and morals are not praiseworthy. Love compassion that led to positive development in children. The role of affection in the spirit and soul of education of children is so important as the importance of food for body growth. As food is lacking or excessive causing unwanted disease on the body then so is lack of affection or love that very much (too spoiled) will also damage children's souls.
Formerly of educators to use in ways that are not true in educating children and teenagers, such as lowering (their abilities), forcing them to do heavy work, sending inappropriate words, get used to insults and does not provide the opportunity children to defend themselves, easy to get mad, prejudice, revenge, rough and even justify a criminal act (the beating, etc.). However, nowadays with the accelerated development of science and the emergence of psychology and research, various of the above is considered an irrational way and proportional. Modern education experts would develop methods of education of children and adolescents who refers to the harmonious relationship that relies on the concept of compassion.
Love it very postitif if indeed carried out in a balanced way, but when excessive parental affection and not ideal then she has unknowingly mengiring child to perform an indecent act and is not responsible. This is the impact of the wrong methods of education. Children who get overly affectionate aka spoiled miss limit will tend to be lazy, submissive, weak, and quick despair when faced with small problems in hidupanya.
Therefore, parents should love their children are sincere, but remain objective. Namely, parents also have to look at shame and disgraceful traits child and then fix it with a rational approach. Receive and said yes just like that the wishes and actions of children without considering the plus-minus will impact negatively on their education and destroy their character as they are difficult to repair.
Be Fair in Love Spilling
One of the important issues that need to be considered by parents is to maintain fairness and equality when they show affection among the children. Father and mother in love and cherish her children not allowed to be playing favorites, because this will naturally lead to the loss of their honor and the loss of confidence in the children of the family environment. The Apostle of Allah and the People of the temple of the holy priest stresses the importance of maintaining equality and not be playing favorites in the show of affection.
It is said, the Prophet was speaking in the midst of his best friend and then a little boy went into his father's place and go around the panel. The father stroked the boy's head in her lap and then mendudukannya right. Not long after his daughter was also in and toward his father. The father then stroked the girl's head and then mendudukannya at his side. When the Prophet saw his father's different treatment than before, he said: Why do not mendudukannya in the lap of one? Then the father had followed the command of the Prophet and his daughter sat in her lap krinya. It was also the Prophet said: "Now you have to maintain justice."
The Prophet of Allah said: "Applies fair was in the middle of your children as you like to be treated fairly by them, either in kindness and in compassion." Therefore, to maintain equality among the children in education is important and when it is not considered to have negative effects.
Affection towards the child pick the positive effects and benefits, including:
· Compassion will bring pleasure and joy. The greater the affection of parents to children, the greater the joy in children and make the hearts of more care and attention.
Your child learn to love from their parents so that he would apply the compassion to others in ways that he saw from his parents. Children who do not feel real affection in addition to getting a negative effect on the body and soul, will also be problematic in the study of love and ultimately he was not able to love and cherish others in the future.
· Emergence of self-confidence. Children who have the independence and self confidence are able to solve their own problems and not wait for help from others. With a big motivation and a steely determination, the child is trying to find a solution to every problem it faces, so that before reaching the goal then abstinence for him to resign.
· Compassion will motivate kids to do various activities with success. Children who feel enough affection then he will be successful in various activities and field cultivate a digemarinya. In education it will be a bright child and physically skilled and even he will grow in a healthy manner.
· Affection to children able to attract the sympathy of the child, and in turn the child will believe her father, so terjalinlah good relations between them and the child will hear and obey the words of the father. Thus this child will be easily trained and directed by his father. Because this child is loving and likes people who understand his desire that people like this he found in his father's private, so that he will keep his father's command. In this regard, Imam Ali bin Abi Talib said: "The human heart is cruel. He who does gentle and loving heart to it then it will be submissive and obedient to him. "
Conclusion
Parents who express true affection to their children are forming the character of the child to be obedient. With love and sincere and harmonious relationship, parents can prevent their children from committing a disgraceful act and lead them towards a glorious and noble action. Compassion is the key to perfection and the ideal of education.
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